
Divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. If your soon-to-be ex-spouse is an active-duty military member, you may have questions about how child support is determined, collected, and enforced. Here’s what you need to know to navigate this process.

The process for determining child support is the same for military and non-military divorces—it’s governed by state laws. Typically, the court considers factors like the income of both parents and the needs of the child.
If both parties can agree on an amount and payment schedule, the court will review the agreement to ensure it’s fair and free from coercion. If no agreement is reached, the court will apply a formula to calculate the appropriate support amount.
Military parents have two primary options for paying child support:
This system provides a reliable way to ensure payments are made on time.
If a military parent fails to meet their child support obligations, there are serious consequences, including:
These measures ensure that child support obligations are taken seriously, even within the military.
At Graham Family Law, we understand the unique challenges of military divorces. With over 20 years of experience serving San Antonio and surrounding communities, we provide skilled representation to protect your rights and secure the best outcome for you and your children. Whether in court or at the negotiation table, we’re here to help.
Contact us today at 210-308-6448 or via email to schedule a consultation. Let us guide you through this process with confidence and care.
We proudly handle divorce and family law matters throughout San Antonio and nearby areas, including Bexar, Kendall, Floresville, Wilson, Atascosa, Hays, Comal, and Guadalupe counties. We also serve the municipalities of Cibolo, McQueeney, Marion, Santa Clara, New Berlin, Kingsbury, Staples, Redwood, Zuehl, and more.
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